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Your Pregnancy Is Your Problem

An employer refuses to accommodate a pregnant employee, treating pregnancy as a personal failure

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The Situation

What They Said

“You got pregnant — that is your problem, not mine. I cannot be expected to rearrange everything for your personal choices.”
This phrase is used by an employer or manager when an employee discloses pregnancy and requests accommodation, maternity leave, or modified duties, framing the pregnancy as an irresponsible personal choice rather than a legally protected condition.
The Fallacy

Misplaced Personal Responsibility / False Equivalence

This argument frames a legally protected biological condition as a purely personal choice and assigns the entire burden of accommodation to the employee. It creates a false equivalence between personal choice and legal obligation — while pregnancy is a personal event, it creates specific, non-negotiable legal obligations on the employer. Framing this as the employee's problem to manage alone is both logically flawed and legally incorrect.

What the Law Says

Your Legal Foundation

Basic Conditions of Employment Act 75 of 1997
Section 25 — Maternity Leave
“An employee is entitled to at least four consecutive months' maternity leave. An employee may commence maternity leave at any time from four weeks before the expected date of birth, unless otherwise agreed, or earlier if a medical certificate states it is necessary for the health of the employee or her unborn child.”
Maternity leave is a statutory right — it is not a concession the employer grants at their discretion, and pregnancy cannot be treated as a reason to dismiss or penalise an employee.
Employment Equity Act 55 of 1998
Section 6(1) — Prohibition of Unfair Discrimination
“No person may unfairly discriminate, directly or indirectly, against an employee, in any employment policy or practice, on one or more grounds, including race, gender, sex, pregnancy, marital status, family responsibility...”
Pregnancy is an explicit listed ground of protection — treating a pregnant employee differently or refusing accommodation on the basis of pregnancy is direct unfair discrimination.
What Scripture Says

God's Word on This

Psalm 127:3 (NET)
“Yes, sons are a gift from the Lord, the fruit of the womb is a reward.”
Scripture presents new life and pregnancy as a gift and blessing — framing pregnancy as a punishable personal problem stands in direct contradiction to the way God values human life and family.
Isaiah 49:15 (NET)
“Can a woman forget her nursing child, or have no compassion on the child she has borne? Even if mothers were to forget, I could never forget you!”
God uses the mother-child bond as the highest illustration of covenant faithfulness — dismissing a pregnant woman's need for accommodation treats as burdensome what God treats as sacred.
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