Age is used to dismiss a young person's voice and deny them participation
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The Situation
What They Said
“You are too young to have an opinion on this. Sit down and let the adults talk.”
This phrase is used by adults in family meetings, community gatherings, or school settings to exclude young people from discussions that directly affect them, based solely on their age.
Your Response
How to Respond
Under the Child and Adolescent Statute (ECA), Article 16 guarantees my right to opinion and expression and to participate in family and community life without discrimination. My age does not justify silencing me.
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This argument dismisses the content of a young person's view by attacking the characteristic of their age rather than engaging with what they are saying. The validity of an idea or concern is not determined by the age of the person expressing it. Excluding someone from a discussion purely on the basis of age is a form of discrimination that many legal systems address.
What the Law Says
Your Legal Foundation
Estatuto da Criança e do Adolescente
ECA, art. 16 — Right to opinion
“Article 16. The right to liberty includes the following aspects: ... II - opinion and expression; ... V - participate in family and community life without discrimination;”
The statement excludes a young person from discussions based solely on age, violating their right to opinion and expression and to participate in family and community life without discrimination.
What Scripture Says
God's Word on This
1 Timothy 4:12 (NET)
“Let no one look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in your speech, conduct, love, faithfulness, and purity.”
Scripture explicitly instructs that young people should not be dismissed because of their age — youth does not disqualify a person from having a valid voice.
Joel 2:28 (NET)
“After all of this I will pour out my Spirit on all kinds of people. Your sons and daughters will prophesy. Your elderly will have revelatory dreams; your young men will see visions.”
God's communication and revelation come through young people equally — age is not a filter for whether a person's words carry truth or worth.
Practice
Drill Prompt
If someone says, 'You're just a kid, you don't understand anything,' respond: 'The law recognizes my right to express my opinion and to participate in decisions that affect me, regardless of my age. I may not have your experience, but my perspective is valid and deserves to be heard.'
What They'll Say Next
Blindside Counter-Arguments
After you give your response, they may push back. Here is how to handle each counter-argument.
They might say: “But the law also says you must respect adults and their authority.”
Your response: Respect does not mean silence. Article 17 protects my dignity and autonomy, and Article 16 explicitly grants me the right to opinion and expression. Respecting adults does not require giving up my own rights.
Legal basis: Art. 17
They might say: “You're not mature enough to have an opinion.”
Your response: Article 15 states that I am a person in development and a subject of rights. My development does not negate my rights; it means I have the right to be heard and to develop my opinions with guidance, not exclusion.
Legal basis: Art. 15
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