A family pressures a girl to undergo FGM, claiming it is a cultural requirement she cannot refuse.
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The Situation
What They Said
“This is our tradition. Every woman in this family has gone through it. You have no right to refuse.”
A family or community member pressures a girl or woman to submit to female genital mutilation (FGM), framing refusal as cultural disloyalty or disrespect.
The Fallacy
Appeal to Tradition to Override Bodily Integrity
The argument that a harmful practice must be accepted because it is traditional is a classic appeal to tradition fallacy. Longevity does not confer legality or morality. No cultural practice — however long-standing — can override a person's constitutional right to bodily integrity, security, and health. Female genital mutilation causes permanent physical harm with no medical benefit and has been recognised internationally and legally as a form of violence against women and children. A family's history of a practice is not consent by the current person.
What the Law Says
Your Legal Foundation
Children's Act 38 of 2005
Section 12(3) — Prohibition of genital mutilation
“No person may perform genital mutilation on a child.”
FGM on a child is an absolute criminal offence in South Africa — no cultural or traditional justification is a defence.
Constitution of the Republic of South Africa, 1996
Section 12(2)(b) — Bodily integrity
“Everyone has the right to bodily and psychological integrity, which includes the right to security in and control over their body.”
No tradition or family decision can override a person's constitutional right to control over their own body.
Promotion of Equality and Prevention of Unfair Discrimination Act 4 of 2000
Section 8(c) — Gender-based harmful practices
“No person may unfairly discriminate on the ground of gender, including any practice, including traditional, customary or religious practice, which impairs the dignity of women and girls.”
FGM is explicitly a form of gender discrimination under PEPUDA. The traditional framing provides no exemption.
What Scripture Says
God's Word on This
1 Corinthians 6:19-20 (NET)
“Do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price. Therefore glorify God with your body.”
The body belongs to God — not to a family, a tradition, or a community. What is done to the body is a spiritual matter. Permanent harm to the body in the name of tradition does not honour God.
Psalm 139:14 (NET)
“I will give you thanks because I have been remarkably and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, and I know this very well.”
God made the body complete. A tradition that surgically removes parts of the body to control female sexuality starts from a premise that God's design was deficient — which Scripture does not support.
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Common Counter-Arguments
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They might say: “If you don't do it, you will not be considered a proper woman in our community.”
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