Culture, Tradition & Rights

Eldest Son Inherits Everything by Custom

A family applies customary succession to exclude daughters and younger children from inheriting.

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What They Said

“By custom, the eldest son inherits everything. Daughters have no claim — they will go to their husbands' families.”
After a parent's death, the family applies a customary succession rule that gives all assets to the eldest son and excludes daughters entirely from the estate.

Customary Rule Applied Without Constitutional Review

Customary succession rules that categorically exclude daughters have been challenged and struck down in South African courts. The Constitutional Court ruled in Bhe v Magistrate, Khayelitsha (2004) that the rule of male primogeniture under customary law — which excluded women and illegitimate children from inheriting — was unconstitutional. The blanket exclusion of women from inheritance solely on the basis of gender is no longer valid law.

Your Legal Foundation

Intestate Succession Act 81 of 1987 as amended by Reform of Customary Law of Succession Act 11 of 2009
“The estate of any person who dies intestate shall devolve in terms of this Act, including persons in customary unions. All children — including daughters — inherit equally.”
After the Bhe case and the 2009 amendment, daughters inherit on an equal basis with sons in intestate estates, including from customary unions.
Constitution of the Republic of South Africa, 1996
“The state may not unfairly discriminate directly or indirectly against anyone on one or more grounds, including race, gender, sex... birth.”
Discriminating in inheritance based on gender or the order of birth violates the constitutional right to equality.

God's Word on This

Numbers 27:7-8 (NET)
“The daughters of Zelophehad are correct. You must by all means give them possession of an inheritance among their father's brothers, and you must transfer the inheritance of their father to them.”
God ruled directly against the tradition of excluding daughters from inheritance. This ruling became permanent law in Israel. The pattern of Scripture on this issue is clear.
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